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  Turning your Dreams into Reality

January, 2004

Welcome to my inaugural newsletter! I am honoured you have chosen to receive this, and welcome your feedback. This month, I chose "setting and getting your goals" as the feature article, because it is timely. (For those who attended my goals workshops this month, this will be a refresher for you. If you did attend a workshop, I would love to hear your powerful positive statements!)

  In this issue:

This newsletter is for you- let me know what you want to read here. I invite your suggestions and feedback. If you would like to contribute some tips, websites, books, quotes, successes you've achieved- please send them to me. This is all about you, and helping you turn your dreams into reality.

  Goals- You've Set them, now Get them!
  January is historically the time to set goals for the New Year. Unfortunately, about now sometimes our enthusiasm is waning. First off, check and see if the goal is yours or someone else's. Is it important to you? Or are you "shoulding" on yourself? If you are, chances are it's someone else's. If it is, get rid of it! Focus your energy on something that is truly important to you.

If it is your goal, Write it down! Statistics show people who write down their goals have over an 80% higher success rate of achieving them. Start a Goals journal. Make sure they are SMART goals- specific, measurable, achievable, results-oriented and time-limited. Create a plan in small doable steps with timelines- for example, if your goal is to lose 60 lbs in a year, break that down to 5 pounds a month. It seems much more doable and easier to stay on track. It also gives you reasons to celebrate along the way! Write down your compelling reason for wanting the goal. Write it with passion, with feeling, with energy, so you are really clear on why getting the goal is important to you. Your compelling reason will keep you focussed on why you want the goal.

Visualize what it is like having achieved your goal. Visualize you are living it- taste it, feel it, smell it, see it, revel in it. Create 1 or 2 believable, powerful positive statements per goal that will keep you on track. Make them juicy enough to excite you and keep you motivated.

Start a daily routine. Each morning review your goals, your compelling reasons and say aloud your powerful positive statements. Visualize your goal already obtained. Write out one step you can take today to achieve your goal. Then do it! No excuses- make your goal a priority! Repeat your power statements throughout the day. If you do mess up, no worries! Get back on track and carry on! Acknowledge your accomplishments at the end of the day, and celebrate your successes along the way!

  What's your Self-Talk?
  What are you telling yourself? How are you talking to yourself, are your beliefs self-limiting or life-enhancing? Do you talk to yourself the way you talk to your friends, with compassion and encouragement? Choose to be your own best friend! You control your thoughts and beliefs- and if they're getting in the way of you achieving your goal, notice that and choose thoughts that will serve you.
Journaling is an excellent way to work through any negative thoughts or feelings you are having. It is a great tool to work through issues, come up with solutions and look at alternatives, and is another way to reinforce the successes you've obtained in your day.

Enlist support! Find a buddy, join a group, hire a coach. Make sure your buddy is in tune with your goal, and will support you in a positive way. A coach can help you identify thoughts, feelings and beliefs that are holding you back, as well as hold you accountable for your actions.

For most of my life I told myself I wasn't athletic and couldn't run. I hadn't ran since school because I honestly believed I couldn't. 2 1/2 years ago a friend encouraged me to take a learn to run clinic with her, with a goal of completing a 5 km race. I had a lot of negative self-beliefs and talk going on. I am a slow runner, and was at the end of the running group, which was humiliating and frustrating to me, and to me affirmed I couldn't run. Then I would give myself a pep talk, and say it wasn't about where I placed, but that I did it- that it was me doing my personal best, not in comparison to others. I would give myself credit for getting out there and doing it. "Just do it" became my mantra, and it worked! I stayed committed to following my schedule, completed the clinic and the race- and had fun in the process! That year I completed 3 10 Ks as well. Then last year I completed 2 10 Ks, a 12K and a half marathon (21 K)! That's the pic you see (above)- me completing my first half! It took working through my limiting beliefs and fears, taking daily steps toward my goal and staying committed to my plan. (The running coach that encouraged me when I was at the back of the pack helped big time too!)

 
  This section is reserved for tips or successes you would like to share. What worked well for you? How did you do it? Or what's an awesome website you've been to, or book you've read? A quote that's inspired you to action, or changed your thinking and your life? Or brought a smile to your face?
Here's a quote I enjoy, "It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult." - Seneca. I find things are never as hard as I anticipated. Once I dare to walk through the fear and get started, it's never as bad as I thought. Take the first step today toward making your dream a reality!

"Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes". Ben Franklin So- put on your work clothes! It's time to begin the journey!

I would like to thank Davena Tarkanen for the beautiful picture she provided for this month's quote of the day. If you have an inspiring or wonderful picture you would like to share, please email it to me.

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  I am a Certified Executive Coach, and the owner of From Dreams to Reality Success Coaching. My dream is to help you fulfill your professional and personal dreams and live the rich, full life you are meant to!
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